The average time it takes dumpers to reach out to their exesĪccording to the results from the survey, dumpees’ chances of hearing from their exes were the highest in the first half of the year after the breakup. They probably processed unhealthy emotions such as guilt and shame and found it easier to focus on themselves and not worry about their exes. This indicates that dumpers weren’t very eager to converse. Others likely just checked up on their exes and then went back to no contact when they assuaged their guilt.Īfter the first month of a breakup, the chances of exes reaching out decreased by a staggering 50%, dropping down to 6.48% per month. I’m not sure how their conversations went, but some probably had a fakeup and ended up back together shortly after getting back in touch. One of the most interesting things I’ve discovered is that many dumpers (14.8%) contacted their dumpees before the end of the first month. Human beings are different by nature and go through different post-breakup experiences, so it’s impossible to predict when they’ll reach out and what they’ll reach out for. That’s why it took some dumpers longer than others to reach out. Dumpers are of different ages and genders and had unique relationships. It’s not helping you improve your self-esteem and become a better person at all.Īs you can see from the chart above, the chart consists of 108 dumpers. If this is what you’re thinking, you need to stop. They’re scared their ex will find someone else and that they’ll stay miserable forever. If you ask me, that’s priceless because nothing is more important than your health and well-being.Īnyway, many dumpees worry they’ll never hear from their ex again. Unlike most dumpees who torture themselves with “what ifs,” you were able to let go of hope quicker than most dumpees and found happiness within yourself. Your ex let you heal and detach and gave you a golden opportunity to learn and improve from the breakup. You should consider it a blessing in disguise and be thankful to your ex for not confusing you and disturbing your healing. If your ex never reaches out (not even years later), you need to know that this isn’t such a bad thing. That’s why they send their exes breadcrumbs and talk about unimportant things dumpees couldn’t care less about. Most dumpers cool off after a while and become curious about their exes. All they can do is blame their exes for their actions and feelings and ignore the need to self-reflect and improve themselves.īut fortunately, not many dumpers completely destroy their exes’ value in their eyes.
Such dumpers tend to resent their exes, have a strict no contact policy, or aren’t capable of seeing their exes in a better light. They stay in it and focus on moving forward with their lives. Some dumpers also never break no contact. It takes some dumpees days or weeks and others months or years. The time it takes exes to reach out varies for each individual. How long does it usually take dumpers to reach out?
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